Wand vibrators are as essential to a sex toy collection as a cup of coffee is to your morning routine. Whether you call them “personal massagers” or “the fastest way to orgasm,” there’s no question that wands belong in the bedside tables of beginner and experienced sex toy users alike.
Why? Wand vibes are more powerful than most other types of vibrators, Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD, associate professor of sexual and relational communication at California State University, Fullerton and host of the Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast, tells SELF. “They deliver rumbly vibrations that diffuse deeply into the body,” she says, for more pleasure and less of a chance of overstimulation (which can happen with smaller vibes, like bullets). While they’re really popular for using on the clitoris, you can also try them on nipples, penises, butts, or anywhere else you want to feel a nice buzz.
Also key: that microphone shape, with a large head and a long handle. “The wider surface area can make it easier to hit your hot spots because you don’t have to be super precise with how you hold the toy,” Dr. Suwinyattichaiporn says. Not only is this useful for beginners, but it also comes in clutch during partnered play.
It doesn’t matter if you’re in the market for your first vibe or your 10th—with so many shapes and sizes out there, finding the right one can be tricky (not to mention time consuming). So we spoke with experts and tested some for ourselves to find the best wand vibrators around. Read on to shop our faves.
Our top picks
- Best Overall: Magic Wand
- Best Runner-Up: Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand
- Best Splurge: Lelo Smart Wand 2
- Best for Beginners: Bellesa The Demi Wand
- Best For Couples: Le Wand Petite
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How we picked the best wand vibrators
To find the best wand vibrators, SELF contributors pulled on their combined nearly three decades of experience testing and reviewing sex toys. We also consulted 10 experts and asked them to share their tried-and-true recommendations. The final list includes high-quality, top-rated wand vibrators across different sizes, price points, and intensities.
What should you look for in a wand vibrator?
Before you drop major dollars on a sex toy, make sure it’s built to last and that it will live up to your expectations. While you’re shopping, our experts recommend paying attention to these key criteria:
Material
The head of your wand vibrator should be made from a nonporous (i.e., easy-to-clean) material, like medical-grade silicone that’s “safer for use against the skin as well as inside the body,” Jennifer Litner, PhD, AASECT-certified sex therapist and founder of Embrace Sexual Wellness, tells SELF. Some brands may note that their toys are made from “body-safe” materials. So what’s the difference? All medical-grade silicone is also body-safe—but the reverse isn’t always true.
It’s most important for the head to be made of silicone because “that’s where bodily fluids will come in contact with the toy, and you want to be able to clean it properly,” Javay-Frye Nekrasova, MEd, a certified sex educator at Lovehoney, tells SELF. Some handles are ABS plastic, which is a hard, nonporous material that’s also safe to use against the skin and also weighs less than other materials (a nice perk), Dr. Litner says.
If you want to take your wand into the tub or shower, make sure to buy one that’s waterproof (compared to water-resistant or splashproof, which can only handle a light sprinkle). One last tip: When choosing a lube to use with your vibe, go with a water-based one—silicone lubes can ruin your toy’s material.
Size
Wands are bigger than many other types of vibrators, which makes them amazing at radiating strong sensations across larger areas. That can feel great—but some people prefer more targeted stimulation, which is where other smaller massagers come into play, Dr. Litner says. Compact toys can also be easier to hold and control (although using a toy mount or sex pillow can help), may be better for some positions with a partner, and are a great choice for travel too.
Power source
A corded wand offers consistent intensity, and you never have to think about charging it—the downside is you’ll need to be near an outlet. This might not be a big deal when you’re using it by yourself at home, but it can be a pain when you’re switching positions with a partner or going abroad (where you might need an adapter). Luckily, there are tons of rechargeable options that are just as powerful and can stay juiced up for hours at a time.
Noise level
If loud buzzing takes you out of the moment, Dr. Litner recommends visiting a store that carries the wand you’re interested in and seeing how it sounds in person before you commit to it. You can also sift through online reviews to get a sense of a vibrator’s noise level. Keep in mind that the volume might vary once you get it home—you’d be surprised how much your sheets, shower, or a bubble bath can muffle!
Shop the best wand vibrators
Best Overall: Magic Wand
Babeland
Babeland
Pros
- Pretty powerful
- Durable design
- Flexible neck
- A time-tested classic
Cons
- Large and corded
- Not waterproof
It’s impossible to talk about wand vibrators without mentioning this OG. Every expert we spoke to recommended the Magic Wand massager, calling it “beloved” and “iconic.” This tried-and-true pick has a hard, ABS-plastic head that makes it easy to apply pressure wherever you need it. And it doesn’t quit: “it’s known for having a powerful and high-quality motor that will last for years,” Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, tells SELF.
The original Magic Wand is corded, so it will never die on you in the middle of a session (so not cool). But if you don’t have an outlet nearby, you may want to try the brand’s rechargeable model instead.
Product specs
Speeds: 2 | Vibration patterns: 0 | Battery life: N/A | Corded: Yes | Waterproof: No
Best Runner-Up: Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand
Le Wand
Le Wand
Le Wand
Rechargeable Vibrating Massager
Pros
- Sleek design
- Flexible neck
- Very long battery life
- Lots of vibration speeds and patterns
- Has a travel lock
Cons
- Noisy
- Not waterproof
- Pricey
The oh-so-luxurious Le Wand is another all-time favorite. This rechargeable vibe is similar to the Magic Wand in lots of ways—with a powerful motor, large head, and intuitive buttons—but has a sleeker package. It “feels like a little bit of luxury,” Shadeen Francis, LMFT, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, tells SELF.
While it’s on the pricey side, it has 20 different vibration patterns and 10 intensity levels (that’s more than most other vibes on this list). Plus, five hours of run time on a single charge is pretty impressive.
Product specs
Speeds: 10 | Vibration patterns: 20 | Battery life: 300 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: No, splashproof
Best Splurge: Lelo Smart Wand 2 Medium
Lelo
Lelo
Pros
- Curved handle for easy reach
- Lightweight
- Quiet
Cons
- Less powerful than the Smart Wand 2 Large
Lelo may be best known for their innovative toy designs (case in point: the uniquely curvy Enigma), but it knows how to make a classic, reliable wand too. The Smart Wand 2 is a rumbly massager with a curved handle that helps you reach around bellies, butts, and other bits.
I prefer the Medium, which is a nice weight (5.5 ounces) and size (about 8 inches long). It’s comfortable to hold for longer periods of time, while its slimmer shape makes it ideal for using with a partner. But if you’re looking for something more powerful, a Large option is also available.
Product specs
Speeds: 4 | Vibration patterns: 10 | Battery life: Up to 240 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
Best for Beginners: Bellesa The Demi Wand
Bellesa Boutique
Bella Boutique
Pros
- Budget-friendly
- Compact
- Quiet
- Waterproof
- Discreet charging case is great for travel
Cons
- Less powerful than some others on this list
This itty-bitty buzzy buddy by Bellesa is perfect for beginners. While it’s a similar size as many bullet vibrators, at 3.5 inches long, it also has the amped-up power of a wand. I love the sunshine yellow color and discreet charging case—you could almost mistake it for a pair of sunglasses in your bag.
Another bonus? The handle doesn’t vibrate, so it won’t numb your hand out while you use it.
Product specs
Speeds: 8 | Vibration patterns: 0 | Battery life: 60 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
Best for Couples: Le Wand Petite
Le Wand
Babeland
Pros
- Travel-friendly size
- Flexible neck
- Quieter than most vibes
Cons
- Not waterproof
Smaller wands are best for partnered play because they’re less likely to get in the way, according to Francis. The Le Wand Petite is a great compromise—it’s not so small that it’ll get lost between two bodies, but not so large that it’ll be awkward to maneuver, either. Although it’s on the shorter side, it doesn’t skimp out on power, thanks to 10 rumbly speed settings and six vibration patterns, Francis says.
Product specs
Speeds: 10 | Vibration patterns: 6 | Battery life: 60 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: No, splashproof
More great options
We still think these toys are worth recommending, even though they didn’t make it into our top picks. (After all, every wand vibe can’t be the best!) Find even more SELF staffer and expert favorites below.
FemmeFunn Ultra Wand
Amazon
Babeland
Pros
- All-over texture provides a unique sensation
- Silky smooth handle and head
- Flexible neck
- Waterproof
- A good value
Cons
- Only available in fluorescent colors
The entire FemmeFunn Ultra Wand is coated in buttery, body-safe silicone with a bumpy feel that’s not just for aesthetics. “Textures and sensations on the clit and vulva can bring novelty to the body and mind, which can be more exciting than experiencing the same smooth surface all the time,” Dr. Suwinyattichaiporn previously told SELF.
I’m also a fan of this pick’s simple controls, flexible neck, and lightweight design (you can read my full review of the Ultra Wand here).
Original photo by SELF writer Gabrielle Kassel
Product specs
Speeds: 2 | Vibration patterns: 10 | Battery life: Up to 90 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
Playboy Pleasure Vibrato Wand Vibrator
Babeland
Playboy
Pros
- Handle doubles as a dildo
- Uniquely angled neck
- Texture adds to the stimulation
- Waterproof
Cons
- Vibration is lower-intensity
- Button labels are confusing
- A little pricey
If a two-in-one doesn’t impress you, then certainly the three-in-one Vibrato Wand will. While this Playboy Pleasure product may look like a standard wand vibrator, it can also be used as a vibrating dildo or a G-spot massager. The two ends are powered by separate motors, and the handle also twirls to create that come-hither motion that’s so well-suited for G-spot stimulation.
Original photo by SELF writer Gabrielle Kassel
Product specs
Speeds: 8 | Vibration patterns: 5 | Battery life: 90 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
Le Wand Dive Submersible Massager
Babeland
Babeland
Pros
- Designed for underwater play
- Flexible neck
- Travel lock
Cons
- Larger and heavier than other options on this list
- Pretty pricey
Love a good solo session in the bathtub or shower? The aptly named Le Wand Dive was made for you. The Dive is durable, rechargeable, and user-friendly (much like our other Le Wand pick above). But what makes it stand out is its completely submersible design, for safe and satisfying underwater exploration. Even better: It has a travel lock, so you can bring it along on your next getaway to use in the Jacuzzi.
Product specs
Speeds: 10 | Vibration patterns: 20 | Battery life: 120 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
Satisfyer Wand-er Woman Wand Vibe
Amazon
Amazon
Pros
- Curved, ergonomic design
- A good value
- Waterproof
Cons
- Larger size may make it harder to hold
- On the heavier side
As a professional sex toy reviewer with nearly a decade of experience, one of the hills that I will die on is that Satisyfer is one of the most-overlooked brands in the game. Their vibrators are high-quality and not too expensive (the ideal combo).
When it comes to choosing just one of their vibrators, Rosara Torrisi, PhD, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and the founding director of the Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy, tells SELF that the Wander-Woman Wand is her top pick. “[The handle] has a bit of a curve, so it can get around a bigger body more easily,” she says. Other perks include its extra-large head, waterproof design, and 50 total settings (when you combine its five speeds and 10 vibration patterns).
Product specs
Speeds: 5 | Vibration patterns: 10 | Battery life: 70 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
We-Vibe Wand 2
Womanizer
We-Vibe
Pros
- Rumbly vibrations
- Very quiet, despite its intensity
- App-compatible
- Waterproof
Cons
- Expensive
This wand vibrator comes highly recommended by Jessica O’Reilly, PhD, host of the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast and co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay. “The We-Vibe Wand 2 is perfect for those who love intense, deep, rumbly vibes that diffuse across a wide surface area for a deeper, more full-bodied sensation,” she tells SELF.
Despite being most of the most powerful massagers on the list, it’s also one of the quietest—a major bonus for those with roomies, kids, or skittish pets. “It’s super intuitive and easy to use, as it has a tactile switch for modulating settings and an ergonomic handle,” Dr. O’Reilly adds. It can even be synced with the We-Vibe Connect app on your phone, so you can adjust the settings more easily or use it with a long-distance partner.
Product specs
Speeds: 10 | Vibration patterns: 10 | Battery life: 120 minutes | Corded: No | Waterproof: Yes
Doxy Extra Powerful Massage Wand Vibrator
Lovehoney
Lovehoney
Pros
- Incredibly powerful vibrations
- Handle can be used for temperature play
- Buttons are clearly labeled
Cons
- Priciest option on this list
- Size may make it hard to hold
If other vibrators leave you wanting more, try this one from Doxy. Like the Magic Wand, it’s corded, so it can’t die on you mid-solo session. Meanwhile, the aluminum and titanium handle adds some heft, which increases the amount of pressure this vibe can deliver.
